Re: Judgement Day _2
- From: AdaCrypt <austein.obyrne@xxxxxxxxxxxxxx>
- Date: Sat, 23 Jun 2007 07:56:16 GMT
against him. A man who finds
himself in these situations feels as if he is spending his life working
for people who hate him. He feels desperate for someone to love, but
fears that another marriage may ultimately leave him with another
mortgage payment, another set of children turned against him and a
deeper desperation. When such a man is called "commitment-phobic," he
doesn't feel understood.
When men try to keep up with payments by working overtime and are told
they are insensitive, or try to handle the stress by drinking and are
told they are drunkards, they don't feel powerful but powerless. When
they fear a cry for help will be met with an instruction to stop
whining, or that a plea to be heard will be met with "yes, buts," they
skip attempting suicide as a cry for help and just commit suicide. Men
have remained the silent sex and are increasingly becoming the suicide
sex.
What feminism has contributed to women's options must be supported. But
when feminists suggest that God might be a She without suggesting that
the Devil might also be a female, they must be opposed. Feminism
articulated the shadow side of men and the light side of women. It
neglected the shadow side of women and the light side of men. And it
didn't acknowledge that each sex has each side within itself. When the
issue of sexual harassment surfaced, we were told, "Men don't get it."
In fact, neither sex gets it. A man doesn't get a woman's fear of
harassment, which stems from her passive role. A woman doesn't get a
man's fear of sexual rejection, which stems from his initiating role.
Both sexes are so preoccupied with their vulnerability that neither
understands the other's vulnerability.
The difference? Feminism taught women to su
.
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